Het aanbod van Innerflow Family Constellations
Systemic constellations & guidance
You are invited to slow down and still yourself, so you can quietly explore what moves you. In which you keep control of the process.
Individual constellation | contact in the here and now
During an individual constellation you make space for what you are facing in the here-and-now and what burdens, hinders or concerns you.
What can you expect?
During an individual session I guide you with the help of:
- life integration process (LIP)
- the leaf method
- drawing
- visualizations
- dolls and other objects
- a systemic conversation without a constellation
You don’t have to ‘do’ or ‘act’ anything. The inner movement arises automatically.
Themes that are addressed include:
- recurring relationship patterns: aggression, anger , frustration
- physical complaints with / or without medical cause
- feelings of restlessness: difGiculty concentrating, avoiding certain situations, fears and being in your head
- problems with children or parents
- pleasing, conGlict avoidance
- feeling that you are being taken advantage of
- worrying about whether or not you are compliant
Individual sessions take place in the practice in the Netherlands, abroad or online via a secure connection.
Group constellations | experience the power of the field
In a group constellation we create a safe space and I guide the person who brings in a question. The other participants are invited to represent the system – a parent, feeling, illness or desire. This is done intuitively.
The power of the field gives access to systemic information that was previously hidden; you experience a connection to something bigger than yourself. The collective field carries wisdom within it and this is available to every participant, even when you have not contributed a question.
During the group constellations we use:
- phenomenological constellations: who are you in the here-and-now
- individual constellations in a small group (min. 3 persons)
- circle of truth | blind unfolding of the Gield
- constellations in nature
Practical information:
- a group constellation takes 30-60 minutes, multiple constellations can be done
- group constellations take place in Waalre or at a location to be determined
- both questioners and representatives are welcome
- Themes about family, relationship and love, work, health, education and all that wants to be looked at
Systemic work for professionals in education and care organizations
As an orthopedagogue and former education professional, I know how meaningful work with children, clients or teams can be. Also at work, unconscious systemic dynamics play a role that affect communication, cooperation and job satisfaction.
Systemic work for professionals helps to:
- understand colleagues better
- recognize triggers and patterns in yourself
- take the right place on the team
- grow professionally and personally
- stand in your own power at work
I offer customized programs for:
- teachers and school teams
- care workers
- pedagogical staff (child care)
- intervision groups or supervision
- (starting) managers in education or care
- (starting) teachers in education
Somatische Plant Medicijnen Integratie
SPMI | Somatic Plant Medicine Integration is a method to explore the insights and experiences gained during a plant medicine ceremony, retreat, during or after microdosing or after recreational use.
We explore NOSC (Non-Ordinary State of Consciousness) experiences and I support you to look at your trauma imprints and psychedelic experiences with compassion and curiosity. I help you make meaning of your experiences.
The SPMI method is trauma sensitive, works with the whole body and connects with resources. I guide you in making changes in your immediate environment with your relationships by matching them with the inner transformation you may have experienced through plant medicine.
Experience of others
On Saturday, October 18th, I participated in a family constellations morning with Patricia and Marco. Although I have had previous experience with family constellations, I realize how valuable it is to continue doing this regularly and to be able to keep looking at what arises in daily life. This time, I didn’t bring anything of my own, but every constellation always touches something within yourself and brings new insights. The atmosphere was safe and familiar, which made me feel at ease. All in all, it was a valuable morning, and I will definitely come back again.
Bart Jan
“Beforehand, I wasn’t quite sure what to expect from a systemic constellation (it was my first time). Honestly, I was a bit skeptical, and that feeling persisted during the session. However, something happened that also impressed me; certain issues/patterns became visible that I hadn’t noticed before, and in the days that followed, it continued to resonate with me. I noticed that the insights slowly fell into place.
Patricia’s guidance felt pleasant, calm, and non-judgmental. This also gave me the space to be truly open. She asked the right questions at the right moments. All in all, a very valuable experience that brought me more than I had anticipated.”
Unanimously
“I had a one-on-one family constellation session with Patricia. That afternoon gave me a lot of insights. I became aware of certain patterns and behaviors I had. I can now look at the emotional pain I had surrounding my father from a different perspective. Before the family constellation, I felt a lack of connection with him. Now I am more aware that this connection actually lay deep within my family system. It wasn’t just about me, but also about how my family has evolved. The feeling I had after the session was one of relief.”
Unanimously
“On March 8th, I attended the Systemic Family Constellations workshop with great pleasure and amazement, led by Patricia and Marco.
After a warm and informal welcome with coffee and tea in a cozy, peaceful, and bright space, we introduced ourselves. The plan for the afternoon was explained.
We began with a constellation exercise in the form of a practice round with three people. It seemed like things started moving immediately and automatically. After a short break with some nuts and chocolates to relax, we proceeded with a constellation involving the whole group.
The person starting the constellation briefly explained the situation, mentioning the family members involved. This person was guided by Patricia and Marco. The group represented the respective family members during the constellation (Representatives).
The guidance from Patricia and Marco felt calm, familiar, and supportive where needed.
For me, the constellation was very enlightening. The representatives provided insights into my relationship with my mother and daughter.
Where I was stuck and having difficulty understanding what was happening, my eyes were opened.
I felt, without many words but through body language, facial expressions, and the positions chosen by the representatives, where the issues lay.
Since then, it seems like something has truly changed in the relationships. It has relieved tension, as if something has shifted.
I had been curious for a while about what a constellation would bring, found it quite exciting, and had no specific expectations.
It is very special to experience so much happening, emotions surfacing, and quickly connecting with your feelings during a family constellation, clarifying things.
I felt completely at ease with Patricia and Marco. They, along with the group, helped me gain new insights and change patterns.”
Unanimously
” Very helpful assistance!
In December 2023, our twins were born. It was quite an adjustment with our 4.5-year-old son and the twins at home. How to divide attention and manage time. We were short on hands.
Through a friend of ours, we got in touch with Patricia (her aunt). She had offered to come and help with the children. After a nice introduction, we agreed that she would come on Tuesdays to help with bathing the twins and picking up our son from school. On the days she helped, she also gave tips and was there mainly to help us find the peace to do it ourselves. Eventually, we started doing things step by step on our own and Patricia still comes by occasionally to see the children.”
Unanimously
Due to my own experience with the dynamics within our family and relatives, I had been curious about family constellations for some time. Your personal invitation gave me the final push to finally take the step.
The energy I felt during the constellation you facilitated in response to my question went straight to my heart. I felt the love and the struggle of the other person towards me. Very special. I felt safe and well guided by you. Thank you Patries.
Unanimously
Within my work as a psychotherapist, I have heard a lot about family constellations. I had never been a participant in a family constellation before. After receiving an invitation from Patricia, I decided to experience what Family Constellations can bring myself. Patricia, along with Marco, provided a safe and inviting environment where I was particularly impressed by the non-verbal, dynamic, and energetic power that touched me deeply. Connecting with the deeper layer, my intuition, my strength, and energy allowed me to rediscover my life force and let it flow more intensely. I experienced that Family Constellations with Patricia and Marco can be an effective way to gain deeper insights into patterns and pains, initiating a movement towards transformation and healing. A path towards more freedom and hence space for personal growth.
